| You thought you were understood Have you found that when you're talking with your teenager that they respond to in a way that completely throws you because it wasn’t what you expected? This tends to happen just when you thought you had it worked out and you actually haven't. |  |
Then you're quite confused as to where you where you went wrong.
What to do about it
Look your not alone on this one - it's all good. The thing is it's about working out what color they are - yeah what colour they are. You and your teenager have different colours potentially and the secret is to work out your colour first so then you can work out their colour. From here you are able to determine the differences between you and your teen.
Personality Overview - Red
So if I just give you an overview about what the colours are. There are four colours, the first one being red. So the reds they like to win as they love the challenge. When talking to them try and use a picture or a diagram as that will help you connect and communicate with them.
Yellow Personality
If you have a yellow then they are very outgoing and friendly. If you talk about what is positive or what is the possibilities with what you're discussing or what you're wanting them to do, then they more likely to connect with it.
Green Personality
If you have a green then they are very caring, warm personalities and they are also quite cautious. So if you talk to them with a step-by-step approach as to what's going to happen and how then there'll be more into the conversation.
Blue Personality
If you have a blue then they're into the final details in life and they tend to be more reserved. If you get into the finer details of what it is you're talking about and make sure it is credible because they’ll question as to whether it is.
What to do next
When you work out your colour and you work out your teenagers colour then in the next blog I'll talk about what to do with that knowledge next.
Look your not alone on this one - it's all good. The thing is it's about working out what color they are - yeah what colour they are. You and your teenager have different colours potentially and the secret is to work out your colour first so then you can work out their colour. From here you are able to determine the differences between you and your teen.
Personality Overview - Red
So if I just give you an overview about what the colours are. There are four colours, the first one being red. So the reds they like to win as they love the challenge. When talking to them try and use a picture or a diagram as that will help you connect and communicate with them.
Yellow Personality
If you have a yellow then they are very outgoing and friendly. If you talk about what is positive or what is the possibilities with what you're discussing or what you're wanting them to do, then they more likely to connect with it.
Green Personality
If you have a green then they are very caring, warm personalities and they are also quite cautious. So if you talk to them with a step-by-step approach as to what's going to happen and how then there'll be more into the conversation.
Blue Personality
If you have a blue then they're into the final details in life and they tend to be more reserved. If you get into the finer details of what it is you're talking about and make sure it is credible because they’ll question as to whether it is.
What to do next
When you work out your colour and you work out your teenagers colour then in the next blog I'll talk about what to do with that knowledge next.